(א) וַיִּהְיוּ חַיֵּי שָׂרָה מֵאָה שָׁנָה וְעֶשְׂרִים שָׁנָה
וְשֶׁבַע שָׁנִים שְׁנֵי חַיֵּי שָׂרָה:
And these were the years of Sarah’s life: 100 years, and 20 years,
and 7 years. These were the years Sarah
lived.
There are many questions that are asked about the focus on the
number of years Sarah lived. 127.
And I want to draw your attention to a peculiar medrash in Breishis
Rabba:
בראשית רבה (וילנא) פרשת חיי שרה פרשה נח
ג רבי עקיבא היה יושב ודורש והצבור מתנמנם בקש לעוררן אמר מה ראתה
אסתר שתמלוך על שבע ועשרים ומאה מדינה אלא תבא אסתר שהיתה בת בתה של שרה שחיתה ק’
וכ’ וז’ ותמלוך על ק’ וכ’ וז’ מדינות.
Rabbi Akiva was giving a shiur or a drasha, and he noticed that the
audience was starting to fall asleep!
So, he said the following:
How was Esther able to rule over 127 countries? It must be because just
like Sarah lived 127 years, her great-granddaughter could rule over 127 countries!
And this medrash makes little sense at first glance:
1)
Why
do we care that R’ Akiva was giving a shiur and people were falling asleep?
2)
Yes,
I get that both Sarah and Esther have the number 127 in their life, but what’s
the connection?
3)
How
does this cute connection between 127 and 127 cause the listeners to wake up!?
Milchamos Yehuda is a sefer written
by Rabbi Zvi
Yehudah Mamelok, a survivor of the holocaust, who was a student of R’ Meir
Shapiro. In that sefer, he offers an
explanation to this medrash:
We know that Sarah’s original name was SARAI and it gets changed to
Sarah. And to be fair, most of us
probably barely notice because it’s basically the SAME NAME. However, says the Milchamos Yehuda, it is
actually TOTALLY DIFFERENT.
When Hashem changes Sarah’s name he says:
(טו)
וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹקִים אֶל אַבְרָהָם שָׂרַי אִשְׁתְּךָ לֹא תִקְרָא אֶת שְׁמָהּ
שָׂרָי כִּי שָׂרָה שְׁמָהּ:
Hashem said to Avraham, your wife SARAI should not be called SARAI
anymore. Rather, her name is SARAH.
And why was it so important to change her name from SARAI to SARAH?
Explains RASHI:
דמשמע שרי לי ולא לאחרים כי שרה סתם שמה, שתהא שרה על כל:
Because SARAI implies that she is FOR ME, and not for anyone else.
Literally MY SARAH.
Her new name, SARAH, on the other hand, means she is a SARAH FOR EVERYONE!
Sarah, says the Milchamos Yehuda, slowly transformed and changed
herself throughout her life. Originally,
she was a SARAI, primarily focused on herself.
She could be SORER, rule over herself, but she wasn’t focused as much on
what she could do for others. But, eventually she came to realize that even
though she is only person, she can have an impact. She could bring people into her home, she
could provide them a warm place to stay, a listening ear, and a little
inspiration.
And after she developed this mida within herself, Hashem said, it’s
time to change your name. Because your
name no longer reflects who you are. You
are NOT SARAI, a Sarah who is only for herself.
You are SARAH, a SARAH who is LAKOL, who looks out for an cares for
others.
And Esther experienced a similar shift in perspective in her life
as well. At the beginning of the story of the Megillah, Esther is known for
what she DOESN’T say. She never tells
anyone her nation or her religion.
Esther is TOTALLY focused on her own survival.
And even when she hears about the terrible decree against the
Jewish People, and Mordechai comes to ask her to go to the King, at first she refuses. “I could be killed!”
And it’s at that moment that Mordechai tells her:
You can’t stay silent in this moment!
וּמִי יוֹדֵעַ אִם לְעֵת כָּזֹאת הִגַּעַתְּ לַמַּלְכוּת:
How knows?! Maybe it was for
THIS MOMENT that you became queen!!
And it is at that moment that Esther realizes she, too, has the
capacity to make an impact on others. It
is no longer time for her to live a life focused on her own self-preservation. It was time for her to step up and act on
behalf of the rest of Klal Yisrael.
This explains the connection between the 127 years of Sarah and the
127 Provinces of Esther. Two women who
realized that they could no longer live only for themselves, and that they
should never underestimate the impact even one person can have.
And with this, we can now explain R’ Akiva’s actions as well.
We read the medrash that says BIKEISH L’HISORIRAM, he wanted to
wake everyone up, so we think it means he said this drasha about Sarah &
Esther to them. Says the Milchamos
Yehuda, NO! He said it to HIMSELF!!
He’s giving a shiur and people are falling asleep. And he says to himself, what am I doing
here? Why is this not working? If they’re falling asleep, I must not be
bringing the excitement, the passion, the CONFIDENCE of the power of Torah to
the group!
So, he reminds himself of his great-grandmothers, Sarah &
Esther. And he said, they each realized
that even though they were only one person, they were capable of making an impact. If so, I can do that too! And it gave him the confidence to teach with
more enthusiasm and to get their attention back.
In that moment, Rabbi Akiva, the ultimate optimist, reminds himself
that if Sarah & Esther could adapt, could learn to believe in their ability
to have an impact on others, to be one person who makes a difference, he could
do that too.
I have remarked to many of you over the past few weeks, that I have
never seen Klal Yisrael so ACTIVATED, so ready to do and help and give to each
other, than I have seen over the past 5 weeks. The level of interest in doing for
others and being there for others has been remarkable.
We have gone from at time being more of a SARAI to becoming a nation
of SARAH LAKOL.
And, at the same time, we continue to be reminded that our ability
to have an impact does NOT have to be with something big and
transformative. It can be with relatively
small, relatively easy actions.
And even though, yes, it has been emotionally exhausting to keep
this up, WE MUST KEEP IT UP! But I do
think we could use a reminder that the way to keep it up can be with small,
impactful things.
–
Continuing
to check in on family and friends in Israel.
–
Continuing
to make small, meaningful donations.
–
Continuing
to add time for Tefillah EVERY DAY!
But there is one remarkable organization I came upon the other day,
which can help all of us make a big impact with relatively little effort. It is
called oneminaday.com.
It was started by families of the hostages, and it has detailed
information about each hostage.
Additionally, if you put in your zip code, it will provide the phone
number for your representatives in congress along with a script. And if you enter
your email, they will send you a reminder each day to spend ONE MINUTE doing
something so important.
Sara Imeinu, Esther, and Rebbi Akiva remind us all to never underestimate
the power of one person to make an impact. All it takes is one minute a day.